This post is all about building your Valentine’s Day Self Care Kit.
I’m a person who needs and loves creating self care kits, and a Valentine’s Day kit is my favorite! The day it’s self is wrapped in love; about setting aside special items that make your heart flutter.
When else do we have a whole holiday dedicated to celebrating love in all its forms? The most important love story you’ll ever have is the one with yourself.
For me, Valentine’s Day is the holiday to romanticize your life; dedicated to self care, self love and showing show self appreciation.
I started creating Valentine’s Day self care kits and checklists a few years ago when I couldn’t find a nearby event and found myself feeling insecure when I didn’t have someone else to make the day special. Now? It’s become my favorite February / New Year tradition, and I actually look forward to the 14th rolling around! There’s something incredibly empowering about having a day completely dedicated to romance, and yes, especially if you’re spending it at home creating your very own tradition.
The night before, I’m in full prep mode – I’m talking freshly painted nails drying while my favorite fruit-infused water chills in the fridge (strawberry and mint is my go-to!). I make sure my apartment is spotless, laundry and dishes put away – because nothing distracts my self-care vibe quite like seeing yesterday’s coffee mug giving you the side-eye. This way on V-Day morning I wake up to a space that feels like a personal spa retreat, with absolutely zero chores hanging over my head. Just pure, uninterrupted me-time!
Below, I’m sharing my absolute must-haves for the perfect Valentine’s Day self care kit, I’ve also put together my own step by step Valentine’s Day self care day + kit that you can check out! It’s filled with all my favorite goodies and self-love essentials that I plan and love. Think of it as your shortcut to self-care bliss! But first, let’s dive into what makes the perfect self-care kit!
Ready to Build your Valentine’s Day Self Care Kit CHecklist?
Use this as a guide and ideas list to see what you may want to add or indulge in on your favorite romantic day of the year! Remember this is all about what you need to feel extra loved and special so don’t hold back ❤️.
🕯️ Set the Mood
- Candles (bonus for romantic or calming scents like rose, lavender, or vanilla)
- to switch it up go for tall candles to place around your space.
- Freshly washed soft blankets or throws
- Comfy PJs (silky or cozy—your choice!)
- A favorite playlist, lo-fi background music, audiobook
🛁 Pamper Time
- Bubble bath or bath bombs (rose petals are optional but fabulous)
- Shower with eucalyptus hanging on the showerhead.
- Sheet mask or face mask
- Nail polish for an at-home mani-pedi (optional but fun)
- I do this the night of so that I feel my best on Vday
- Cucumber slices or cooling eye masks
🍫 Snacks + Treats
- Chocolate (truffles, bars, chocolate-covered strawberries or chocolate-covered popcorn)
- Favorite savory snacks (popcorn, cheese board items, or chips)
- Wine, sparkling water, fruit-infused water or a mocktail
- Fancy glassware for drinks 🥂
🎬 Night-In Activities
- Streaming service ready for a movie or show marathon
- Journaling supplies (notebook, pens, or markers)
- DIY crafting materials (puzzle, knitting, or other creative tools)
💖 Be Extra
- Fuzzy slippers or socks
- Essential oil diffuser with calming scents
- A cozy robe to wrap up in
- Favorite book or audiobook for some quiet time
- A handwritten love letter… to yourself!
💌 Final Note: Check off as many as you like! This kit is all about you and what makes your Valentine’s Day extra special. 💕
What I Have + Where I Got It: My Valentine’s Day Self-Care Kit
Cozy Essentials
- Fuzzy Socks: From Amazon (they’re pink, fluffy, and basically clouds for my feet).
- PJ Set: Also from Amazon—a silky two-piece that feels ridiculously luxurious.
- Sweater: The coziest oversized Sparrow & Wilde sweater that I never want to take off.
- Slippers: Fluffy and warm from UGG but Amazon has a great pair too.
Pamper Products
- Body Scrub: Homemade! Made from used coffee grounds, a little coconut oil, and a touch of sugar—it smells heavenly.
- Face Mask: Homemade! Matcha and honey.
- Essential Oil: Lavender from the wellness aisle at Whole Foods—it’s my go-to for calming vibes.
Snacks and Treats
- Chocolate: A box of truffles from our local shop (because I deserve the fancy stuff today).
- Savory Fix: Cheese and crackers from Trader Joe’s (the unexpected gouda is life-changing).
- Drink: Strawberry-infused water and a lemonade mocktail option I made — poured into my favorite fancy glass.
Entertainment
- Audiobook on Repeat: A Court of Thorns and Roses by Sarah J. Maas (I’m completely obsessed and always puts me in my happy place).
- Movie Pick: Pride and Prejudice (Keira Knightley version, obviously).
Extra touches
- Candles: Rose and sandalwood scent from Anthropologie—it smells like a cozy hug.
- Fairy Lights: Amazon again, because they make every space instantly magical.
This is my perfect Valentine’s Day self care kit—simple, indulgent, and totally me! 💕
My Valentine’s Day Self Care Day + Evening Plan
AM
- Wake up
- Make a special breakfast and coffee or mimosa
- Grab my bed tray and fill it with my breakfast, drink and because I’m romanticizing I add rose petals
- Crawl back into bed and either read or watch a show
- Be cozy for a little bit longer
Midday
- Grab my clothes (I opt for cozy because it’s a full day at home with no plans)
- Take a nice and relaxing bubble bath
- Continue reading my book
- Added salts + rose petals for romantic vines
- Skin and body care with extra extra love
- Get dressed with my cozy furry socks + robe
- Curl up on the couch and play a video game or continue reading
- Make a cute charcuterie board I planned the day before
- Pour a fresh glass of fruit-infused water
PM
- Went on an evening walk
- I opted in to make a chocolate cake with strawberries from my fruit-infused water
- Stretched on my at while I watched TV
- Made a lovely, couch bed and finished watching TV
Make this holiday the best 24 hours, dedicated directly to you and rejuvenating that inner spark. Make it luxurious, soft, pamper and romanticize your life.
